When it comes to your first dance, are you dealing with a reluctant fiance?
Let me guess. You know your first dance is one of the most important moments of your wedding day. And, you know you need to learn how to dance to feel more comfortable and confident on the reception dance floor. But, when you suggest preparing for your first dance, your fiance just rolls his eyes and shakes his head in protest.
Listen, when it comes to dancing it's completely normal that your fiance isn't jumping up and down with excitement. As a matter of fact, when I asked my husband to dance for the first time, he reacted the exact same way.
The thought of dancing was an entirely new concept to him that felt completely foreign and uncomfortable. All he could picture was being thrown into a full-on dancing with the stars routine with dramatic, over the top dance moves. So, his answer was a quick and firm no.
Sound familiar? Not to worry.
Like my husband, your fiance just needs a little more insight and convincing. And no, we're not going to trick him into dancing. He just needs to know what to expect so it doesn't seem so awkward and uncomfortable.
I have 3 very important points for you to share with him that will open his eyes and motivate him to prepare for your first dance.
Before you're finished he'll be lacing up his shoes and ready to hit the dance floor with you on your wedding day.
Ready to get him on board?
Let's do this!
1. Let Him Know That You Want To Anticipate Your First Dance, Instead Of Dread It
The truth is, most couples dread their first dance because they've never learned how to properly dance together.
I mean, how can you possibly look forward to something, when you don't know what you're doing, right?
Let's think about this for a second.
If just the thought of dancing at your wedding makes you weak in the knees now, the nerves will only build if you don't do anything to change it.
Instead, let your fiance know that you want a little practice under your belt so you can both relax and look forward to the moment.
2. Let Him Know That You Want To Feel Comfortable And Confident On The Dance Floor
If dancing together doesn't light you up with excitement, nothing's going to change on your wedding day.
And spoiler alert, your first dance is going to happen whether you're ready for it or not. So wouldn't it feel so much better to be prepared for it?
Let your fiance know that you want to feel more in sync and confident so you can relax and enjoy dancing together. That practicing ahead of time, will help build your confidence. And, the more confident you both feel now, the more confident and prepared you'll feel during your first dance.
3. Let Him Know That You Want Your First Dance To Be Special
Remind him that this isn't just an ordinary dance at someone else's wedding. This is your first dance as husband and wife.
There will be pictures, you'll be the center of attention and everyone will be watching you.
You don't want to look like awkward teenagers at prom right? You want to look like a confident, happy couple gliding across the floor as husband and wife.
Also, let him know that you want everyone to enjoy your first dance and remember it as the highlight of the evening.
Let me ask you this...Do you want your guests to be engaged in the moment and inspired when they watch you dance? Or do you want to bore them to death and put them to sleep with that old hug and sway?
Really express how much this moment means to you and that you want it to be a keepsake that everyone cherishes for years to come.
Alright, let's do a quick recap of how to get your fiance excited for your first dance.
Let him know that you want to prepare for your first dance, so you can...
1. Anticipate your first dance instead of dread it
2. Feel completely confident and prepared.
3. So it's a special moment that everyone can enjoy and remember forever.
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